Posted by Dinah on November 8, 2005, at 9:43:11
Clearly I disclosed too much too soon with T2. And truth be told, I have no intention of letting that happen again. I have no intention of letting myself be authentic, because authentic clearly isn't acceptable. And there are definitely disclosures that I never ever intend to make again.
But if I'm concentrating on sex therapy with T3, there are a host of issues that it would probably be better for her to know about. I know I've talked about most of them here over the years. But I'm not sure if I should hit her with all of them before she really starts with me, or if I should space them out, or bring them up as they come up.
Some of them may push me into "weird" rather than just eccentric. And I don't want negative judgement again, no matter how politely and therapeutically expressed.
I know they aren't supposed to be judgemental, but that sort of thing is readily enough visible no matter how they try to disguise it.
poster:Dinah
thread:576676
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