Posted by sleepygirl on December 8, 2005, at 19:14:40
In reply to I am not a nice person :-(, posted by sleepygirl on December 7, 2005, at 19:15:02
My T is trying to help me realize that my fiance does not have the same way of communicating his feelings - that he'd just rather not deal with any anxiety, so he never has to risk anything. So, there goes the passion, but I like the calm I have to say, the stability, the presence. My fiance does not seem terribly reflective about anything (the earth goes round the sun and who cares how or why). I however, question most things. Do I need to? I don't know. Can I live a life without any passion or risks? maybe/maybe not
Most days I think that nice and even is nice enough.
poster:sleepygirl
thread:586651
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20051206/msgs/587054.html