Posted by Tamar on December 9, 2005, at 14:13:40
In reply to Gauging comfort levels » allisonross, posted by one woman cine on December 9, 2005, at 9:51:30
I’m glad that people have posted so honestly about all this.Nevertheless, after reading some of the responses in this thread, I’m feeling judged, criticized, misunderstood and ashamed.
There is *no one* in my real life who understands at all about my feelings for my therapist. I know because I have tried to talk about it IRL. And it is so painful most of the time... a little relief every now and then helps enormously. That’s where humour comes in.
I don’t expect everyone at Babble to understand… but I wish it were possible.
If this were trivial to me I would let it go and not bother making a big deal about it. But it’s not trivial to me.
I am trying quite hard to see things from other perspectives. I’ll keep trying. And I’m hoping that others will try to see my way of communicating my feelings as different rather than wrong.
Tamar
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