Posted by happyflower on December 13, 2005, at 14:16:47
In reply to Re: I came here for support , not to be critized » happyflower, posted by one woman cine on December 13, 2005, at 13:54:26
Thanks women cine,
Maybe orchid didn't want to hang me out to dry but I don't find her post supporting at all, not just today, but for a long time we have butted heads. We have very different views, and instead of respecting my decision, she has to post on how what I am doing is wrong in her eyes. I don't think that is supportive, that is being critical.
I did tell my T to let me do what I need to do at my own pace. He wanted me to give my DH ultimatiums after the holidays. Well I don't believe that I will get the desired results from them. So I am not letting him tell me what to do either.
He did say that I have thought this out, we have discussed it A LOT in therapy about my marriage . He says I have been tormented by this for a long time on what to do, and now he sees me more peaceful with my descison. He said he will allow me to go at my own pace. This will be a long process, I need to get my ducks in a row. My T asked me, so if he wanted to change things, is it too late in your mind? I said yes, I have had enough, and it would take a lot for me to change my mind. The truth is he has hurt me very deeply, my heart is broken in two, and I feel it is beyond repair. It has been almost a year now, I can't take it anymore, I am dying inside.
What yoga poses do you suggest? I have been practicing yoga for only a couple of months, but I do know a lot of the poses, I have a very good instructor. :) I find it to be very healing mentally and physially. I am hooked! :)
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