Posted by alexandra_k on January 3, 2006, at 20:37:03
In reply to bad day, posted by ghost on January 3, 2006, at 20:30:07
hey. i prefer the internet to irl too. i get very self-conscious about my weight... and yeah... about the way i dress... and about scars from SI... and i prefer the internet where there isn't a 'bodily' factor... people get to know you for your thoughts and feelings and what you say and the way you see things etc... and for me... those are the most important things about people. and i prefer to 'see' people this way than the other.. and i prefer other people to 'see' me this way rather than the other too..
so i think i understand you there.
is it possible...
that other people don't see you the way you see yourself / the way you think they see you.
where you see a 'fat girl' wearing clothes that other people won't like or whatever... that they see your personality and actually like you as a person... and if there is anything 'wrong' then it is to do with the way you see yourself so that other people see you as lacking in self confidence and putting yourself down?
that maybe... if you had a little more confidence in yourself... and were a little happier in yourself... then those people who you find attractive... might get to know the you we see on the boards and find you just as attractive as you find them?
possible?
i hate christmas :-(
seems that it brings family stuff up for a lot of people :-(
poster:alexandra_k
thread:594911
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20051229/msgs/594914.html