Posted by muffled on January 6, 2006, at 16:07:14
In reply to dilemma, posted by fairywings on January 6, 2006, at 13:32:21
> I have a friend who is a pharmacist. Recently she vented to me about my pdoc. She didn't know he was my pdoc bec. I've never told her I go to a pdoc. She hates him, and talks about him bec. he combines meds., and she thinks that's wrong. I didn't tell her I go to him bec. I think so highly of him, hated that she talks behind his back, and of course it's none of her business. I hate that she thinks the worst of him, esp. bec. it's unfounded. My pdoc is awesome, he has a genuine concern for ppl. It's hard to hear someone cut him down, when I know their opinion isn't accurate, and when I would guess she'll say things about him whenever she gets the chance.
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> I also haven't told my pdoc what she's said to me. My husband said it would serve no purpose to tell him, but I don't know, should he know that a pharmacist is talking behind his back, esp. when it's my guess she'll badmouth him to patients too? Not too long ago, she was talking about him, and said whatever you do stay away from "him", but I'd already been going to him, and I think he's the best. Any opinions? Would you tell your pdoc, or do you think that's just opening up a big can of worms?
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***I'm kinda with your husband on this one. It wouldn't serve much purpose to tell your T.
My inclination would be to tell this 'friend' that she is being VERY unethical herself in talking this way. It is not for her to judge another professionals choice in meds. She sure as hell shouldn't be gossiping about it. She sounds extreemly unprofessional.
Thats my opinion.
Muffled
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