Posted by rubenstein on February 2, 2006, at 20:59:17
In reply to Re: The theraputic relationship » rubenstein, posted by Dinah on February 2, 2006, at 20:34:35
He asked me what it would take for me to understand that he liked me. I said, nothing, because I am so afraid it is fake and just that unconditional positive regard that therapists are supposed to have with their clients, but deep down I guess I know he likes me, and I did let all the elephants out, including the one "I wish that he liked me as much as I like him." He asked how could anybody prove that....
I hate when he is right
or perhaps that is what I like about the man
rachel> Good for you!
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> Did he respond appropriately?
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> It sounds not unlike what happens to me after a particularly emotional session. But in the end it really *is* worth it, I have found. It adds a depth and flavor to the interactions that just isn't there if you're trying to keep something to yourself.
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