Posted by Emily Elizabeth on February 10, 2006, at 9:06:14
In reply to I can't stop crying, posted by Voce on February 10, 2006, at 1:42:00
First, hugs. (((Voce)))
Whoa! How could all of the time you spent in therapy be meaningless? I KNOW you have talked about healing and growth in therapy. Please don't forget that. What you are going through now is really cr*ppy, but the situation is far from over. Things can still work out in a way that feels comfortable to you.
Re: wedding. Let me reiterate what others have said. There is soooo much disagreement and conflict for EVERYONE. When wedding things get intense, you might just step back for a while. Say to yourself, I'm going to put this on hold until tomorrow. Do you do any chat boards for people planning weddings? I used to like theknot.com (about 3 yrs ago). It really helps you feel like all brides are stressing and going crazy and it is NOT just you. Check it out, I think it might be helpful.
Take care of yourself and post later today to let us know how you are doing.
Best,
EE
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