Posted by LegWarmers on February 20, 2006, at 12:34:00
In reply to Re: on knowing 'too much' about your T, posted by zebracrossing on February 20, 2006, at 1:09:16
> Dont get me wrong I did respect him thats the thing. I knew what i was doing was wrong but i culdnt help myself i was like an alcahloic , it was like an ocd person carring out a ritual to reduce their level of anxiety. we had a very open relationship where he didnt freak out when i told him stuff , he was okay with sum of it and not so okay with others.
Thats good you talked to him about it.>one of my probs was i get obssessed with people but fatal attraction stuff, but minus the kiling and violence.
> i cant help it.
> i think people with a low self asteem suffer from this prob.
> it is distressing. i dont live in the states but if i did i would be behind bars a long time ago!
>
> zebraOh gosh! Please do talk to someone about this more. I understand what you are saying.. that you feel that you can't stop, but you dont want to get hurt... from the sounds of it, you could.
I posted my comment becaue I have given passwords out to friends often if I need them to check something, and I never change them to something else. If they know one password they could figure out another if they tried. It never crossed my mind that someone would use it again. I got on top of things yesterday and changed them...only because of the possibilty that they would ever go snoop... it would make me feel so violated. Im sure they wouldn't though.take care
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