Posted by B2chica on March 23, 2006, at 9:32:14
In reply to Re: But I don't *want* to have been an abused chil, posted by Racer on March 22, 2006, at 22:52:59
hey Racer. i understand.
i guess i grew up always taking the blame. i was abused because i didn't pay attention, didn't listen, didn't do as i was told. shame on me for doing, seeing, or thinking. i was 'taken advantage of' because i didn't stop it, didn't listen, didn't do as i was told. i was a belonging for others to do with as they please. that was my purpose.
if i'm angry at someone for doing something to me, then 1)i have to admit it happened and be ashamed of myself, 2)i was stupid and didn't stop it, 3)i deserved it.
how can we not feel responsible for it, when we were taught we're responsible for everything...even others getting hurt.
we are taught to take responsibility for our actions (or lack of). yet others say we aren't responsible for csa?
it's a confusing mess. it's hard for me to grasp there are exceptions to the rule.i understand.
b2c.
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