Posted by Emily Elizabeth on March 23, 2006, at 23:20:40
In reply to pressure to sign....trust, posted by B2chica on March 23, 2006, at 11:06:17
I'm sorry that you are feeling yucky. :( This is such a hard situation to give advice on b/c it is so hard to know what is going on from both POV's. I certainly want you to be aware of your internal experience and intuition. However, I also think that your last paragraph is important to think abt too:
> i don't know. i'm just hurt and confused. i wish i could trust women...i just don't. i feel like i'm being forced to. i HATE that. but maybe since i hate it, it's what i need??? dang this therapy cr@p!
I think it would be worth trying to bring this stuff up with her to try to sort out if this is a pattern of difficulties in your life or if it is really just about her being a bad/untrustworthy therapist.
Perhaps giving it a time limit. Maybe you could go for 3 more sessions and then decide. You could choose to share the time limit w/ her or not.
But I do believe that, in the end, only you can know what is best for you.
Best,
EE
poster:Emily Elizabeth
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