Posted by All Done on March 24, 2006, at 21:11:25
In reply to Re: Tucked in for the night (maybe trigger?) » All Done, posted by LadyBug on March 24, 2006, at 12:19:46
> Awww, that is so sweet to feel tucked in for the night. I think you should get you T to leave you a voice mail so you could listen to it and feel tucked in everynight.
Maybe I'll eventually ask him. Or maybe I'll just blurt it out tomorrow. I don't even know what to expect of myself in therapy anymore.
> It must have been painful not to have your dad tuck you in. I'm married to an A, though he doesn't drink but has done so enough times that I know how hard it must have been for you to have him as your dad.
I think I'm just realizing or admitting how painful it was. It's so hard to think of my dad as anything but perfect. Especially since he passed away. :(
> I'm so glad you call your son at the daycare and reassure him of where you are and that you're coming back. It will be so helpful for him, I'm sure of it. Last time my T went out of town, she left me a voice mail and told me she was at the airport and leaving on ***airlines at ***time, when she landed she told me exactly where she was going and where she'd be staying. She told me she'd be back on a certain night and what time. It was SOoooooo helpful for me. After all we each have a little child inside of us that needs what we didn't get as a child.
That was really great of her. It sounds like she was really in tune with your needs at the time.
> It's great that your T was willing to call you when you needed it.
> LadyBugIt was great of him. I think I'm very fortunate to have him as a T.
Thanks, LadyBug.
Laurie
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