Posted by happyflower on May 6, 2006, at 8:41:37
In reply to Re: Well I told him » happyflower, posted by madeline on May 5, 2006, at 6:56:42
> I understand the loss that you feel. In a real way it is like you "broke up" with him, and that IS sad, it is a loss.
You know I didn't think of it as a breakup, but yeah, it is kinda of like that. I am now remembering the look on his face after I told him, he was hurt, he couldn't hide that. I even feel bad because I don't think he was feeling very good either that day. I hope he heard the part when I said that I like him a lot and really enjoy talking to him about stuff that doesn't have to do with therapy but I don't want it if I can't have it outside of therapy.
Maybe he will have time to think about the situation more. I think when he said "don't talk to me", he was kinda saying it "laughing" but maybe it is him seeing how ridulous it seems. Maybe now that I have drawn up my own boundries, he might be willing to be more reasonable in his own boundries.
Now if I can just get his hurt look out of my mind, I will feel better. In a way, I do want to run into him at the gym to see how he reacts. I hope he will not ignore me. Gee, it does seem like I broke up with him. :-(
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