Posted by happyflower on September 12, 2006, at 17:47:36
In reply to Re: My next T session topic about my marriage and life, posted by LadyBug on September 12, 2006, at 14:51:14
Thank you Ladybug,
I have also felt that we have a lot of things in common too. I also try to hide when I am hurting, I even try to isolate from my T . He is seeing this pattern from me. But that one time I really needed him and he couldn't fit me in his schedule really hurt me and now I cancel the appointments because of some reason I don't want to feel like I can count on or depend on him. I guess it is kinda of backwards thinking. It is so hard to call him between appointments if I need another one, because I am afraid he won't have any openings, and it just hurts to be told no.
It sounds like your stepson is doing great in spite of his father. My stepkids are now mostly married, one is still in school , and I have stepgrandkids now. LOL I feel the same way about my two kids as you do about your daughters. They are what keep me going in this life.
I am glad you get to see your T this week, I don't see mine until Tuesday. I know what you mean about wasting your time talking about your DH, I feel that way too. But usually he helps solitify my feelings about it and validates me which feels great.
I enjoy talking to you, so anytime is good for me too! ;-) We can get through this.
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