Posted by caraher on September 16, 2006, at 8:28:31
In reply to Re: a gesture » ElaineM, posted by annierose on September 15, 2006, at 22:12:42
I feel as Annierose does... I certainly don't hate your T, and he obviously has done many very nice things for you. I just think he's doing something very wrong in his professional role. And here's a thought for you - maybe, just maybe, you are just so beautiful and wonderful that he's not strong enough to observe proper boundaries with you. I don't think that makes it OK; that's not my point. I just hope you can see yourself not only as someone whose existence the universe can tolerate, but as much more - someone desirable, someone people can be drawn to, someone special!
Don't fear your tears at the gravesite! They're a good thing. And while I understand your "survivor's guilt" perhaps a better attitude to adopt would be to live your life as well as you can for them! Don't disdain the gift the fragility of life denied your sisters. The best way to honor them is to make your own life as fulfilling as possible.
((((El))))
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