Posted by TherapyGirl on December 19, 2006, at 17:30:10
In reply to not connecting with T (long), posted by wishingstar on December 19, 2006, at 16:03:30
***I dont think shes like Anne at all... but for some reason, I seem to be playing out a pattern that I got into with her.***
This really struck a chord with me and I'm guessing it's more true than you give it credit for. I know I have, over and over in my life, set up similar situations hoping that they will come out better this time.
I also think it's hard to bond with anyone when you're depressed, and you've been horribly depressed since you met Ginny. So something that might happen in 2 months when you're not depressed might not happen for 6 or 12 months when you are.
I really hope you will hang in there and see if it happens. I do think Ginny is trying to be supportive and I think over time as you each get to know the other a little better, she will read you better even if you can't tell her.
But I'm sorry you're in this place for right now.
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