Posted by Scentedgarden on January 2, 2007, at 19:38:40
In reply to Re: falling apart » wishingstar, posted by Scentedgarden on January 2, 2007, at 19:22:04
if u plz can i add one more thing b4 i switch off laptop...
i think what you wrote to Muffled in this thread , is absolutely exactly just what you need to let her see, read, or hear...you have said it all in that...
and lastly this time....i promise...i also sense you will do it when you are fed up with yourself not doing it...
a you know deep down or you think you know thaqt ur not putting in the work...and youre being like a pal to her just chatting about her kids and cheese parties...I thought it was so funny in a kool way when u said ..she'd probably go for a wlk if i asked her to...sorry but im still laughing about that....tho its probably just my simple sense of humour...but i can just picture u outside with her walking atround the area you describe ...and just like 2 people chatting away shooting the breeze and not hurting each other or saying anyhting to rock the boat...
I think in a way its best if a t does NOT discuss her family for this simple reason that you describe here..as you are taking up vauable time that you probably pay ggod money for to hear about her own life... many others would die for such loose boundaries, but then we always think the grass is greener...
youre a highly intelligent woman ws....you can do this...but not before the bath and choc...and a peaceful rest from churning it over..give your brain a holiday ...lol...
if i dont hear from you be thursday....i will be thinking of you...anyone with aname like wishiong star has to be a super star...!!! its a kool name you know..! I wish you well shinning STAR *
SG
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