Posted by ShortElise on January 26, 2007, at 23:44:22
In reply to lying to my therapist, posted by Tamar on January 26, 2007, at 16:09:53
Tamar, There are times when I go away and figure things out on my own.
If I feel a strong need to figure it out, and I can't figure it out, the I'll take it back to my therapist to see if he can help me figure it out.
Were you using humour? Did you purposely lie or did it just kind of come out of your mouth the way it did and you just left it at that? If you'd said that to me, not counting the tone of voice, I would have understood that you went to bed alone, period. But you were there, and I wasn't.
Talking about crying myself to sleep would be painful, maybe too painful.
Tamar, do you think you could reframe this with a little intellectual curiousity? Like, hm, thisis an interesting process, where am I going here, what's next?
HUgs.
SHortE
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