Posted by Daisym on March 8, 2007, at 1:08:21
In reply to Re: Denial, posted by littleone on March 7, 2007, at 19:45:22
You were very brave to share all of this. Thank you for doing so.
I know about the fear of suggestion. When I was recovering memories there came a time when I wondered if my therapist stumbled. We were talking about how impossible oral sex was for me with my husband. After a long discussion about personal preferences and it being OK to say "no" -- he stopped for a minute and then looked at me and said, "that didn't happen when you were a child -- did it?" It was a frozen moment - we both felt the fear drop into the room like a giant ice cube -- and I just knew. And he knew. Did he plant the idea? No. Obviously I'd been talking all around it. But I was mad at him for asking the question for a long time.
I'm glad you feel that you are moving to a more centered place with your parts and pieces. It is difficult but you are doing the hard work, with the help of your therapist.
Take good care,
Daisy
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