Posted by jammerlich on August 12, 2007, at 9:54:44
In reply to Re: Pain, posted by DAisym on August 9, 2007, at 22:54:31
>>>>And we grieve for the part of ourself we gave to this other, trusted person.
Oh, Daisy, this is so very true. And I am so full of anguish and regret over what I gave. I guess, in lots of ways, I feel foolish now about doing it.
>>>> Grief does eventually ease off. I hope you can find ways to soothe yourself and try to keep yourself in the company of others.
One thing that really stinks is that my list of "others" is short. And I don't feel very motivated to go out and do something about that.
>>>>Doing things helps, even if it is unpacking and organizing.
I'm having an especially hard time with this. I haven't unpacked a single box. Doing so would mean resigning myself to the fact that THIS is where I live, and I'm not sure I'm ready to do that. I still haven't even bought a refrigerator. Making decisions is just too hard.
>>>> I wish I could help more.
The fact that you wrote helps a lot.
Jammer
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