Posted by widget on August 24, 2007, at 13:11:58
In reply to Re: Widget, how goes it?//widget, posted by widget on March 25, 2007, at 22:11:19
I hope I'm posting at the right place. I've been having trouble finding the posts regarding issues in therapy. I just posted to what seemed to be more of a medication issue place. Anyway, I am still stuck in "transference" which I see more as feelings of real love. Sure, I understand the concept of transference and realize it does apply to me but that's not all that's going on.
I haven't posted in quite a long time. I am now because the transference thing is back. I guess I just need to accept it. It is there. My therapist is so kind and gentle. I am experiencing an attachment unlike any other I have ever had. No wonder I think he's wonderful.
I was on vacation recently when I kept hearing my therapist's voice saying, "I could never leave my wife." And, being so very angry about this. He said that way back and here it is popping up unbidden and unwanted. Then, I had a dream where the song"Love Changes Everything". I woke up in a cold sweat, angry and terribly sad (tears) because love has changed nothing! And, it won't go away.
I know there are no easy answers, but if anyone out there can relate to this situation, it would be great to hear how you cope. I am looking for support so please be kind! I can't just "get over it."
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