Posted by RealMe on August 28, 2007, at 23:47:12
In reply to Sad, upset, etc (feeling like a failure trigger?), posted by sunnydays on August 28, 2007, at 21:56:44
Sunnydays
It might be good to talk to your T about how come you feel the need to make yourself such a bad person. What is it a bad person gets to have vs. a good person. Maybe too much talk here about how therapists have basically tossed people out of therapy or threatened to. Are you afraid of that happening? So if you are really bad and it happens, then you can understand why?? Problem is you are not a bad person. We are all of us persons who have done good and bad things in our lives, not perfect. Perfect is boring anyway. And smart *sses are boring too (people who act superior). I hope your therapist sees through your efforts to push away as it is just the opposite that you want in my opinion. If not, tell me to take a flying leap. I can't jump too far though--I wrenched my back yesterday!!
RealMe
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