Posted by Racer on September 7, 2007, at 12:36:30
In reply to Re: And I quit group... » Racer, posted by Dinah on September 7, 2007, at 9:49:10
> Actually you can really take extra credit. Someone asked something of you, and you said no. Yet you don't hate your therapist or think she's a bad person. You just couldn't meet her need.
Hm...
I came to a similar conclusion last night, but it was a bit different: I got extra credit, because I expressed my need to quit group, and I stuck with that need, despite my fear that my T would see it as acting out, or "punishing" her. That fear is so overwhelming -- it's part of that whole thing about being unseen, unheard, etc.
Thank you, Dinah.
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