Posted by rskontos on October 2, 2007, at 9:53:31
In reply to Re: inner kids... » Dinah, posted by muffled on September 27, 2007, at 11:20:19
On this do you think we need to integrate? What happens if you don't open up to the T. I haven't bonded to mine, I see her so infrequently, she has two jobs. I don't know why? I haven't asked because...I don't know why. She is only able to schedule sessions like on MOn, Tues and Thurs, and Sat and only every two weeks to three. That isn't enough for me. I being new to this and usually is it the child out, won't ask, won't say no. I have to go home where it is me out and then I usually say why bother because I am not bonded with her yet. Not enough time. I finally decided to see her more to ask and I missed two appts because of inner struggles and struggles at home and now she won't call me back. Plus she is one of those professionals that runs over and later for appts. Well now that I put it in black and white I see why I don't bother. I am not bonded to her and now she has made me mad.
So back to my question, if I let the inner child alone, and the other at least one I know of with the memories I don't have even thought the times I lose time is increasing is that bad? And should I try to find another T. My depression is better today so naturally I think I will be ok. I know this is a hard thing to work thru and why? I whink in the long run maybe...oh I don't know as you can see I am struggling big time....I don't have a p-doc and have had a hard time finding one.
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