Posted by sunnydays on December 9, 2007, at 15:28:49
In reply to Re: not feeling close **abuse trigger?..... long, posted by Dinah on December 7, 2007, at 21:55:59
> I wouldn't worry about his question. My therapist said that I used to look like I was watching angels dance in the corner of the room. It took him forever to ask what it felt like on my side. I think that's all he meant. He wants to know what you're experiencing when you aren't with him.
**** Yeah, but we've talked about it a lot. Maybe he was wondering if the experience has changed since we last talked about it? Also, sometimes I might look like I'm talking to myself because I move my lips, but usually it's when I'm trying to get up the nerve to say something and I'm practicing it, or I'm arguing with my irrational thoughts. But it's not that I hear anything. I just tend to talk to myself a lot is all.
> Could your mother's insinuations be affecting your ability to feel close? Just a thought...
**** Could be, but I don't feel like that's it anymore. I think maybe it was that I was just tired and having a hard time thinking and stuff. Just one of those days.
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