Posted by Llurpsienoodle on December 13, 2007, at 19:04:39
In reply to Re: t said the F word possible trigger ? » llurpsienoodle, posted by DAisym on December 13, 2007, at 19:01:15
> I'm going to respectfully disagree with your therapist here. You do not have to forgive your dad. You might need to forgive yourself if you hold yourself in anyway responsible, but it doesn't sound like you do.
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thanks daisym, you always have such thoughtful responses. I think the reason why T wanted me to forgive is actually so that I could forgive myself. because I feel so nasty and disgusting about what happened. that if I forgive dad, maybe I can let myself off the hook. I dunno. it's always the adult's fault. I can only tell myself this a hundred times. and still the nastiness sticks to me like some fetid slime.
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