Posted by Happyflower on January 23, 2008, at 21:12:01
In reply to Re: Thanks star and Kath » Happyflower, posted by sunnydays on January 23, 2008, at 19:43:50
Hi Sunny,
I am okay, I am glad you posted. You are probably right, my hurt feelings are tainting my total experience with him. But those things did happen, I didn't write about a lot of that stuff because I as ashamed of it because I cared so much for him and I knew he was doing wrong. I do admit, there was some good that came through therapy with him, and that is something that even his hurt can't take away from me. But the hurt is unimaginable in what happened at the end and the next 6 months later. With therapy and a lot of EMDR, I am almost at peace with it now. Now I don't care if I see him ever again, and that has taken 6 months to be able to say that. My last 2 session really focused on the hurt and anger and helped so much. But I needed to fire him, things got to personal between us and when it was evident I needed therapy still, well lets just say you can't go back. Thanks Sunny for your support
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