Posted by sunnydays on February 22, 2008, at 17:27:48
In reply to Re: therapy lately » sunnydays, posted by MissK on February 21, 2008, at 10:16:39
> >The desire for a hug probably comes out of a lot of old feelings too, now that I think about it, so we'd probably have to explore that.
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> That is probably a good idea to think about just what the desire for the hug represents or means to you.**** Yes, if I get around to bringing it up, I think I will definitely need to explore that.
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> It got me thinking of why I may sometimes feel like I want a hug from my T - mostly, I think it happens when I feel or go to a place in my mind and discussions where I feel very alone. My desire to want to give her hug though is to express my appreciation for how's she's helped me, and that I like her.**** That's kind of it for me too. It's also at times when I am very sad and want comfort. And sometimes when I am leaving, just because I think it would tell me that everything is still ok between him and me, and I am still an acceptable person. Which may not be the best reason for him to give me a hug...
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