Posted by fleeting flutterby on March 28, 2008, at 10:43:46
In reply to Re: What if....., posted by Daisym on March 28, 2008, at 1:07:25
> I hate when I bump into my therapist's other life... I think you should tell her that it bothers you. You might be surprised with how much trust is built by talking about this set back. And I agree with Dinah, most therapist don't want to share too much so that you won't feel stiffled. You should be able to say just about anything in therapy without worrying that you've hurt your therapist's feelings or offended them in some way.<
Tell her how I feel about this!?? yikes... that would be frightening.... so hard to tell someone like that about if they have done something that causes me to be uncomfortable. Seems I'd be telling them they don't do their job right-- they could get angry. :o(
I feel in my heart you are right about this-- but my expereince is telling me other things.....*sigh*...... so scary to NOT listen to "experience"(from my past).If I do say something, I have no idea how to go about it so that T. won't get defensive(not that T. ever has- just worry it will happen like it did with other T.s) ..... hmmmm....... just don't know......
Thanks for your reply-- I appreciate it very much.
fl.flutterby
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