Posted by Dinah on October 7, 2008, at 16:48:29
In reply to I finally feel good about loving my T...., posted by workinprogress on October 7, 2008, at 1:27:12
It does feel good!
Love without expectations is the closest we come to perfect love. Pretty rare too.
There is something almost beautiful about realizing that whatever we might wish for or long for, we can recognize that we won't get it and just enjoy the loving feelings and the reality of what we do have. And even accept and respect the pain of longing without feeling like we need to do anything about it.
Radical acceptance and love.
poster:Dinah
thread:856145
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