Posted by lucie lu on February 20, 2009, at 20:21:36
In reply to Re: I feel really needy right now.... » lucie lu, posted by obsidian on February 20, 2009, at 20:00:28
> I once told my T that I wondered if he saw me because of guilt, because he knew I was attached and that it would hurt to separate..he said "Do I seem like someone who operates out of guilt?", and I suppose I do respect that he can make his own decisions, and that I don't have to be responsible for him.
> I do feel a certain responsibility to "get better" though, that that is part of the bargain. So, I wonder if I frustrate him, or if he just gets that "lost cause" or "whatever" sort of feeling with me.
> Like the way you might watch someone make bad choices, and know that you can't change it.
> thanks lucie :-)I think good therapists have a lot of patience.
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