Posted by fleeting flutterby on April 6, 2009, at 16:39:21
In reply to Don't You Think This is WEIRD?!, posted by sassyfrancesca on April 6, 2009, at 10:12:07
I agree with all that Kath said.
But also-- now, this is me talking-- so take it with a grain of salt please... (I feel there is a motive to everything a person does)....
It seems to me that he is also "testing" you to see how much crap you're willing to accept from him. He is your "dream" guy, isn't he? A lot of times "dream guys or gals" will push the limits to see how much crap the enamored one will accept, so then they can see how much(or, if not at all) a doormat someone is going to be. (not that you are a doormat-- but maybe he hopes for you to be one some day soon) I hope for your sake you won't take such behavior from anyone-- I hope that you let others know how you deserve respect, compassion and understanding-- just as much as anyone else.
yikes!-- is what I said offensive?? I don't know...... I sure didn't intend it to be! Please let me know if I've offended you.
best to you,
flutterby-mandy
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