Posted by Dinah on May 17, 2009, at 8:27:04
In reply to Re: I guess I lost it :( » Daisym, posted by mollieQ on May 15, 2009, at 23:31:05
> In a good relationship, you air the feelings, dust yourselves off, and start again. And that appears to be what happened here.
I hope so. I called to humbly apologize, and when he called back I had my son in the car so couldn't really talk. But he seemed fine, and had likely forgotten it. Sometimes my therapist's rotten memory works well for me. He rarely is angry for long.
I thought I had the money issues sorted out in my brain. But I guess they were just lying dormant for the right trigger.
It's funny. I'll always have pain in this relationship because of how it's structured. Yet if he were to say to me that he'd see me for free, or cared about me like a friend, I'd be horrified and fight it every step of the way. I'm angry that I don't have something I don't really want. Weird, isn't it?
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