Posted by FindingMyDesire on May 20, 2009, at 20:05:58
In reply to Re: Just looking for attention » FindingMyDesire, posted by raisinb on May 20, 2009, at 12:28:55
Raisin,
Thanks so much for sharing your situation! It just doesn't seem very common on this board to hear people talk about the sexual transference very much. And it SURE helps to know I'm not the only one.Plus, just in general, your situation gives me hope. Although, 3 years for the worst of it!?!?! haha. Wow.
I don't know if I have threatened to quit like this before. Many, many times to myself. And maybe once or twice I have mentioned (or threatened) it to her, but this has been different. We are still sitting in needing to have a conversation (tomorrow) about whether I need to leave. Of course, I DON'T want to. It's just so, so hard.
I would like to talk to her about what it means when I get so deep in a state that I would want to quit. I agree that just thinking about it makes me feel worse (for example, what happened to me Saturday). But, how do I remember that in the moment?
Thanks again,
FindingMyDesire
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