Posted by Dinah on July 19, 2009, at 15:03:24
In reply to Re: **trigger?** talking about fantasies in T » sunnydays, posted by sunnydays on July 18, 2009, at 17:22:50
I think it's more that there aren't many people around posting, Sunny.
I was really scared too, when I told my therapist. It's such an intimate and scary thing to share. I think I pulled my hair in front of my face when I told him.
He never has in any way indicated that he thinks less of me. I sometimes suspect that's just because he forgets, but for whatever reason, I've never had reason to feel sorry I told him. Therapists hear so much. They probably need to be the most nonjudgmental people around. Although... I suppose I want his being ok with what I told him to be more than a blanket lack of judgment. I suppose I wanted him to see all of who I am and accept it all. He certainly has not given me any reason to believe he doesn't.
I'm sure it will be the same with your therapist. You've known him a long time, and he has always proved trustworthy.
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