Posted by Daisym on February 23, 2010, at 1:05:55
In reply to Re: I'm not sure what I'm doing » Willful, posted by antigua3 on February 22, 2010, at 15:22:57
I think I hate him too. But that is probably exactly what you need to be practicing - hating and then taking care of yourself around it. That said, this is out of line and not very professional of him. If he has decided to stop doing therapy with you and only do med management, or whatever, he should be candid about that. This is almost professional abandonment and that is a big no-no.
I'd leave him a short message asking for a referral. If he gives you BS about time opening up again, I'd ask him to set a clear "no later than" date - and hold him to it. No matter what you are suppose to be learning in all of this, this is just not the way to do it.
As far as your T goes, I'm glad you called her. I think she is your safe base and we all need to return from time to time to feel safe again. Sometimes just being in a safe place lets us think through things in a new, more productive way. So even if she isn't quite capable of sorting it all out, together you probably will be.
I'm sorry you've been sick. Take good care,
Daisy
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