Posted by Twinleaf on October 10, 2013, at 10:30:15
In reply to bad t, posted by alexandra_k on October 9, 2013, at 23:18:10
You are just at the very beginning. Whether you choose to "rant" or explore how you might work through some of your most uncomfortable feelings is up to you, and it's up to HER to stay with you , whatever you say, and help build a strong relationship. I hope you can do that with her.
If this were me and my analyst, it would be an example of a "rupture", where my feelings seem misunderstood or judged. We would then work on a "repair" so that the relationship is once more comfortable and helpful.
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