Posted by alexandra_k on June 26, 2014, at 15:35:03
In reply to You don't get it. » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on June 26, 2014, at 1:33:34
people die. i mean... you put all that time and effort into the relationship and they just up and die on you. not so much as a goodbye sometimes.
is that the same... or not?
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you feel what you feel... i think it is better that you feel it than that you try and supress it or whatever. i... tend to get it all messed up with a bunch of hurt and guilt and shame and... well... i'd probably go to therapy and just sit there in silence... not being able to say anything... hating him for hurting me and feeling guilty for feeling that way. hating myself for it, actually... which is... not exactly ideal either. in whatever f*ck*d up sense of ideal i have. and i wouldn't know how to get past that... so... it is interesting that you have a different response. sort of. i don't know.
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