Posted by AuntieMel on November 14, 2004, at 13:51:23
In reply to rattled ***HUGE TRIGGER***, posted by octopusprime on November 13, 2004, at 13:19:43
Geez. I wouldn't apologize to him, but on the other hand it does sound like it was a bad joke gone wrong. He *did* say he wouldn't have done it if he knew it would upset you.
My personal opinion is that confronting him at work will only prolong the uncomfortableness longer. If it were me I would be polite as could be, while not getting too close, and wait for hime to come to you. The only thing a confrontation accomplishes is giving him a rationalization. "see - it's her, not me"
Just my opinion.
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