Posted by Jakeman on March 24, 2006, at 21:10:29
This is a poem about a man leaving his wife. It comes to mind because of two friends of mine that are going through the terrible pain of their ending their relationship. I struggle for what to say to them. The towns he mentions are in West Georgia and Alabama. Many have biblical names.
In a U-Haul North of Damascus
Lord, what are the sins
I have tried to leave behind me? The bad checks,
the workless days, the scotch bottles thrown across the fence
and into the woods, the cruelty of silence,
the cruelty of lies, the jealousy,
the indifference?What are these on the scale of sin or failure
that they should follow me through the streets of Columbus,
the moon-streaked fields between Benevolence
and Cuthbert where dwarfed cotton sparkles like pearls on the shoulders of the road.What are these that they should find me half-lost, sick and sleepless behind the wheel of this U-Haul truck parked in a field on Georgia 45
a few miles north of Damascus,
some makeshift rest stop for eighteen wheelers
where the long white arms of oaks slap across trailers and headlights glare all night through a wall of pines?What was I thinking, Lord?
That for once I'd be in the driver's seat, a firm grip on direction?So the jon boat muscled up the ramp, the Johnson outboard, the bent frame of the wrecked Harley chained for so long to the backyard fence, the scarred desk, the bookcases and books, the mattress and box springs,
a broken turntable, a Pioneer amp, a pair
of three-way speakers, everything mine
I intend to keep. Everything else abandon.But on the road from one state
to another, what is left behind nags back through the distance,A last word rising to a scream, a salad bowl
shattering against a kitchen cabinet, china barbs
spiking my heel, blood trailed across the cream linoleum like the bedsheet that morning long ago
just before I watched the future miscarried.Jesus, could the irony be that suffering forms a stronger bond than love?
Now the sun streaks the windshield with yellow and orange, heavy beads of light drawing highways in the dew-cover. I roll down the window and breathe the pine-air, the after-scent of rain the the far-off smell of asphalt and diesel fumes.
But mostly pine and rain as though the world could really be clean again.
Somewhere behind me,
miles behind me on a two-lane that streaks across
west Georgia, light is falling
through the windows of my half empty house.
Lord, why am I thinking about this? And why should I care so long after everything has fallen to pain that the woman sleeping there should be sleeping alone?Could I be just a another sinner who needs to be blinded before he can see? Lord, is it possible to fall toward grace? Could I be moved to belive in new beginnings? Could I be moved?
From "In a U-Haul North of Damascus" 1983 by David Bottoms.
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