Posted by Poet on February 16, 2006, at 22:15:10
In reply to I wish I could just tell her!, posted by Maxime on February 16, 2006, at 15:12:29
Hi Maxime,
I wish you could just tell her, too. I wish everybody with an ED could not be afraid to say it.
I come from a family that doesn't talk about things, so this one is hard for me to answer. No one in my family knows about my bulimia, my husband has no clue that I'm completely out of control right now. Hell, my T doesn't know (yes, send me a cyber slap, I know, I know.)
I think that a part of you needs to talk to her about what her urging you to eat is doing to you. I have always found it easier to write to someone than to try to talk directly, so I am in favor of a letter, but since I know that your head is full of things right now, but ask yourself
How do you think your mother would react to your letter?
What would you want her reaction to be?
What kind of relationship do you have with her?
Take care. Let us know what you decide. We're pulling for you no matter what.
Poet
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