Posted by cloudydaze on July 20, 2006, at 18:15:59
In reply to Re: Low self esteem, the biggest source of problems?, posted by Phillipa on July 7, 2006, at 23:09:36
About seeing girls as friends. In fact, this tends to be what a lot of girls want (not all girls, but many i have talked to).
Dating friends doesn't necessarily ruin anything.
I was friends with my bf first...and I know he'll always be my friend :)
Being friends first makes it easier to trust your partner, and establish a close relationship without having to worry about sexual intimacy and things like that (which tends to complicate matters). This way, you can ease into the relationship, and it won't be nearly as scary :)
You say you are afraid of ruining friendships...but in my opinion, life involves taking chances.
If I had not given a blind date a chance, I would have never met my BF!
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