Posted by Karen_kay on January 15, 2004, at 15:44:34
In reply to Due to the mature nature of this post..., posted by All Done on January 15, 2004, at 14:16:09
I never talk about sex with my therapist....
Actually, DO YOU REALLY WANT TO HEAR THIS???? Karen's blushing a bit...for the first time EVER!!!! Ok, so After my shrink said ....Wait, back up, in case you don't know I told my shrink I like to think aobut him when I masturbate and he said that it was fine. And I said, "But, um well um....I feel guilty because you're married and have children, ect." And he said, "Well, you have my permission so now it's consensual. You're free to fantasize about whoever you want." Well, that day I did some "experimenting" and I had an orgasm, and the whole time I had to keep repeating to myself "Bubba said this is Ok. He said this isn't bad. Bubba said this isn't a bad thing to do, ect"So, I know for certain that if I didn't tell him that I was having problems in that area that I wouldn't have gotten to the root of why I was having the problem. And though my actual sex life with my boyfriend hasn't improved (who needs him anyway?) ummm, I'm more fullfilled in other ways. There's a reason you aren't enjoying sex or don't have a desire to have it at all. It's important to find out why. It jsut so happens that led to the discovery of all of my problems, memory and soforth. Not saying that's the case with you or anything. If it's something you want to change, then go for it! Once you say it out loud, it isn't so bad. SEX SEX SEX SEX... Is it really a dirty word...(yeah, I still think so, but it isn't as dirty as I thought)
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