Posted by crushedout on March 4, 2004, at 10:04:17
In reply to Re: how my t is dealing with my si (caution may trig?), posted by pegasus on March 4, 2004, at 9:51:53
thanks for your honesty, pegasus. i agree with you that the chart doesn't make sense for me. i'm not sure if i agree with you about the idea that her getting angry was inappropriate, although i think you may be right that it was partly a response to her feeling guilty for screwing up with me lately. it's not a coincidence that i started doing it the week she told me she was mad at me for needing her, i don't think.as for you feeling guilty, you shouldn't. i have to admit that i think i did get the idea partly from this board, and that's not good. but that can't be anyone's fault. and it's certainly not yours.
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