Posted by whisper55 on March 18, 2004, at 19:07:11
In reply to crash after a great week, posted by crushedout on March 18, 2004, at 18:35:52
Yeah I to battle with this but my T said I pay for her services and that is her job. They will set boundries for themselves and my T said it is her problem to take care of herself that she and I were a team helping me with myself. My T yelled at me and I freaked out and slammed the phone down
on her then the anger hit and boy it went way back to age 5 till 43 and it was aimed for her.
I waied for her to call me and apologize, heck buy me a steak dinner lol. Then remembering in a meeting to change the old patterns dont run away from them they'll never chnage. The phone rand it was my T I said I am sorry for slamming the phone down, she replied it was understandable and she address me with the tone she did with her kids, a shortcoming. I didn't hold it against her heck I did so many stupid stuff to her this was pale in comparision, the next session she welcomed me with a hug and said thank you for coming back.
This is about developing better realtionships and learning boundries when none were taught. If I'd run away and quit that would keep me in the same old pattern. It was about working it out together and I am glad I did. Hope you keep doing well you show the desire to get help and healthy.
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