Posted by Joslynn on July 20, 2004, at 8:46:42
In reply to Re: I mean, my post was for Jadah, posted by Jadah on July 19, 2004, at 21:09:54
To answer your question...I couldn't live the fantasy if the door were opened. Then I would lose the safe person I run to when I feel hurt by other men (my father, guys I am dating/have dated, etc.). If he was the one with whom I was involved, then when he hurt me (which he would be doing by having an affair with me) I would have no one to run to. Because he would be the one I would want to run from. So I would lose him by having him.
(Also, the guilt would get to me...if the person were single, it may be easier to contemplate, but I still couldn't do it. That's partly for religious reasons though.)
Well, that is my answer, FWIW.
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