Posted by Susan47 on July 22, 2004, at 0:08:34
In reply to Re: would I?, posted by steelmagnolia25 on July 21, 2004, at 20:23:43
This is a painful issue, and since I'm new to psychobabble, or any type of chat group, this has been a real eye-opener for me. It's kind of nice to know I'm not alone in my struggle, but it's also very sad to realize that this is one of the pitfalls of... what, transference?
However, I've been doing some thinking on this subject, as I suspect my T would have been inappropriate given the opportunity. He's a man, he's aging, he doesn't seem particularly satisfied with his private life, and like any of us he's human too. Also, other factors would've made it easy for him.. my emotional lability, for one.
But I'm happy to say that I think I would say no now. Because after the orgasm, there would be no respect for a man who took advantage of me like that.
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