Posted by Susan47 on August 16, 2004, at 12:12:55
In reply to Re: I quit therapy (again), posted by underthecs on August 15, 2004, at 19:26:44
I was feeling guilty about being a pain in the b*** to my ex-T, and after reading your posts, although I knew I was angry with him, I didn't realize how destructive the anger was to therapy. I wonder if I expected him to do all the emotional pick-up work, while I just dumped. I used to phone my poor T's answering machine and leave all kinds of messages; any range of emotion I was feeling that felt too heavy to carry, I dumped.
I know he had to be invulnerable to much of it, or how could he survive? Can you imagine several patients doing that to a T at once? Ouchie.
Just a thought.
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