Posted by crushedout on October 30, 2004, at 14:19:48
In reply to Re: my session today and other follow-ups, posted by shrinking violet on October 30, 2004, at 13:27:06
thanks, sv (and everyone else) for your sympathy.my cat sort of *was* my only friend in the world. he was definitely often the only one i had to come home to, and i never (for the last 11 years) had to come home to an empty house. he was always excited to see me (up till the last few days, that is, when he was too sick to get up). it's going to be so hard getting used to an empty house. and i don't want to run out and get another cat so i'm going to have to get used to it, at least for awhile.
i actually haven't been home alone yet -- i'm staying at my ex-boyfriend's house. it's just too hard. but the grief is subsiding a bit. (sorry, dr. b., i tried to move this to grief but my friends are on this board and this is what happens.) i at least know i did the right thing -- that really helps.
now, the hard part is figuring out how to fire my t, which i think i really have needed to do for a long time, and i need to do now. she's a real jerk, i swear. i guess i'll start a new thread soon about how best to do this. it's really going to be hard. i hope i can go through with it for real this time.
> ((((((((Crushed))))))))
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> I'm SO sorry to hear about your kitty. My cat is getting older, and is beginning to have some problems (arthritis, thyroid) and it saddens me. It's especially tough when our pets are our only friends in the world (well, speaking for myself).
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> You're going through a hard time...problems with a T on top of that can be SO hard. I know, I'm in a similar situation with mine (it's so odd....if you take out the sexual aspect of your situation with your T, then your situation and mine are very similar). I hope your T can provide you with what you need.
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> Take care. And keep posting if it helps.
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> SV
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