Posted by eugenia on November 27, 2004, at 21:07:52
In reply to Re: Need advice on therapist boundaries » eugenia, posted by fallsfall on November 27, 2004, at 20:36:04
Thanks for your reply!
I started seeing this therapist when i was struggling with whether to get married. We brought him in for one session, but it wasn't really couples therapy. Then he started seeing her individually for his own self esteem issues. After I left him he continued to see this therapist and he told me that she told him that I was borderline. I probably am, but don't need her to dispense that nugget of information to my ex. What a mess.
I guess I am dwelling on this now because I wish I had acted differently, and feel that if I had been less confused I would not have gotten married and would have saved everybody loads of pain.
I guess I am still angry.
I wish I could just accept.
At least now I have an excellent therapist who is helping me recover from all of that bad therapy!
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